Human beings are always looking for love and for sex. Apart from the immediate need for hunger and thirst, the mind tends to be preoccupied with the thoughts of sex and seeking love. Both these are natural drives. Men irrespective of whether they are married or not notice beautiful women and the same goes with women too. This however does not mean that they are interested in the other persons or that they are straying from their current relationship. Most often this is a unconscious and involuntary reaction or rather men and women are programmed biologically to notice the members of the opposite sex.
Love is considered to be the most important ingredient of a happy marriage. Love for the partner comingles with respect for the partner and his or her contribution to one’s own evolution. Both the partners stay committed to love one another and accept one another along with their strengths and faults for their lifetime. There is always a strong belief that the marriages have been pre-ordained by fate or destiny and that the couple are chosen to be wedded to one another.
There is undoubtedly a lot of good in living a very strict life as per the scriptures. Discipline and the right attitude towards sex as well as towards marriage and love ensure happiness and peace. Love is a natural principle of the heart and when recognized and promoted, it brings about bliss. Ultimately this is what every human being years for – Love and bliss in life.